“Distance makes the heart grow fonder”
My boyfriend went away for a week to his hometown for the Christmas break, and came back a day before New Year’s Eve.
Although it was just a week, I believe I experienced something called “holy-crap-I-miss-you-for-inappropriate-reasons-that-cannot-be-discussed-with-anybody-during-Christmas-dinner”.
There was just something there. Counting down the days until I got to pounce on him, rip up his shirt, tease him while nipping at his bottom lip. There was just something there.
As soon as he got back, we decided to wait a touch longer since it WAS almost the new year, and we wanted to have mind blowing sex in 2015.
So as we counted down the days together, and we did the count down, we found the perfect opportunity to have sex.
BAM! There it was. The pure bliss of sex that I had been yearning for. It just reminded me of how sex became a routine thing for us, when it should’ve been an exciting time for both. There was a different connection when both of us just couldn’t keep our hands off of each other. Unlike those times when only one of us was horny, we both craved each other like crazy, and went at it like rabbits.
Not to mention, we didn’t do any crazy sex positions. (Yeah, it was THAT good. We didn’t need to switch positions. It was just a crazy ride from start to finish with just the basic positions)
I already learned that sex isn’t something that should ever become a chore. But I relearned the importance of wanting each other. Personally, I want him to want me as much as he did on New Years (and several days after that).
It’s hard to plan the future ahead, but one thing I CAN say for sure is that if 2015 sex is anything like how it started off, we’re going to have a wonderful year.
If I got to give any advice to any of the readers out there, it’s this: sure, a relationship isn’t all about sex. But at times, it’s important to look back and fidget with your relationship so you can both find the fire again.
With that said, my resolution for the year (relationship aspect):
Flirt and tease like at the beginning of the relationship. Oh, and never forget to communicate!
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