Stuck.

Considering my last post was about ED, I feel as if I new to clarify my point of view on this.

We’ve had conversations about his ED and sexual appetite (or lack thereof). Honestly, I feel as if I don’t have a choice.

I don’t want to emasculate him by reminding him that he can’t perform; and I wasn’t going to. The problem is, my boyfriend doesn’t see his ED as a problem. He says that he’s gotten over it at a certain age, since thinking about it was going to make it worse. I understand to an extent.

It’s one thing to put it in the back of your mind when you’re at your horniest peak. But he’s a grown man now. He should be reflecting back on his past and present, and build up the courage to go see a doctor. If he’s still in denial about it, he’s never going to get motivated to go see a professional or seek help.

I don’t think ED is a big deal. I just think his lack of concern about it is what’s worrying me.

I can’t just tell him that he needs to go see a doctor, and that his lack of worry is, in itself, a problem.
But now that I know the truth, I can’t ignore it and pretend it’s not there.

Again, I’m not upset about his ED. I’m more concerned about his physical and mental health.

The worst part is, I’m his girlfriend, and yet, I can’t do anything about it. It’s because I’m his girlfriend, I can’t do anything about it. I feel like I’m going through this alone. And I have no one to talk to about it.